What Has Your Attention Today?

Every day, something is competing for our attention.

News cycles. Notifications. Conversations that escalate quickly. Opinions that demand a response. None of it asks permission—it just shows up and waits to see if we’ll give it space.

Lately, I’ve been reminded of this in a personal way.

I’m working on a message that I’m scheduled to share in a couple of weeks. And the interesting thing about message preparation is how often it requires heart preparation. As I sharpen my pencil to dial in what the Holy Spirit is leading me toward as I guide our people, it almost always comes with a sharpening of the scalpel—the quiet, sometimes uncomfortable work the Lord is doing in me.

It’s rarely just about clarity of words.
It’s almost always about clarity of attention.

That’s made me wonder what we’re working on this Tuesday. What things are drawing our attention? Where are our eyes and our hearts being pulled?

Because attention is formative.

What we give our attention to begins to shape how we see the world. Over time, it influences our tone, our posture, and even our sense of urgency. Attention isn’t neutral—it’s directional.

Scripture names this clearly: “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things” (Colossians 3:2). That’s not a call to disengage from the world. It’s an invitation to be intentional about what we allow to form us. Because our attention will form us.

And that intentionality matters, especially when the world around us is constantly screaming for the urgent thing. The reactive thing. The thing that demands immediate response.

Not everything that’s loud deserves to be central.
Not everything that’s urgent deserves to be ultimate.

And not everything that is happening should get the incredible investment of your time or attention.

Faithfulness often starts with a quieter question: What am I allowing to shape me right now?

Paying attention is a choice.
And over time, it becomes a habit.

Geoff Cocanower

Geoff Cocanower is a husband, a son, and the Associate Pastor of Student Ministries at Hope Missionary Church in Bluffton, IN where he leads the team of adults who minister to high school students as well as young adults. Geoff co-hosts a podcast focused on the issues, questions, and blessings of leaders who aren’t in the driver seat of the organization called “The Backseat Leadership Podcast.” (Coming February 2020!) Interesting fact about Geoff is that he is a high school football and volleyball referee in his spare time and is a legacy member and loves all things Download Youth Ministry.com.

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